I would be thinking, what am i ahead of here that doesn't have outs
I'm not sure that's the right question. I am sure most non-regs don't look at it that way.
What happens to our win rate if we are magically able to fold every time someone has a big draw against us? What if we were magically able to fold QQ PF to AK? I.e. do we level ourselves that way?
I think the solution is rather that we refuse to eliminate our implied odds, refuse to force our opponents to play well. I think the problem is the 3-bet.